Older Siblings Sensitivity

I just had my 33 week visit. My baby is still lying sideways, but I assume has plenty of time yet to turn before delivery. My second daughter Kayla was also lying transverse for several weeks prior to delivery but flipped all her own.

There are some studies suggesting that greater uterine laxity may encourage babies to lie in a transverse position when you have closely spaced pregnancies. I might agree to this given my present situation. I will keep you posted as to whether the baby "flips" or not. Right now his head is lying against my right side.

My doctor also informed me I was having a very "large" baby with a big head, the prospect of which is a little frightening.

I have noticed of late my older daughter getting somewhat nervous at my growing and frequently moving abdomen. Older CSK's are sometimes sensitive to newer babies entering the family. While I am certain Hannah will welcome her brother with wide and open arms, there is also the possibility that she is just a little scared she will get that much less mommy time with 3 babies under 3.

It is important as a parent of closely spaced kids you recognize your children's sensitivity to new members of the family. While Kayla seems oblivious to the pending arrival of her brother, Hannah is definitely aware, and a little uncomfortable. Much like around the time Kayla was born, Hannah is regressing just a bit. She has started requesting a "binky" drinking from bottles and is throwing more frequent tantrums, I assume out of frustration.

The good news is you can take active steps to prepare your entire family for the arrival of the latest member of your family. Make sure you carve out a little extra time before baby arrives to cuddle up and snuggle with your other children. Make a point to tell them how much you love them, and how important they are in your life and the life of their newest sibling.

Most children approach a new arrival with a certain level of intrigue, mystery and trepidation. Remember that ultimately they just need the reassurance that you will always be there to hug, cuddle and snuggle with them no matter how many babies there are to share.